The power and peace of principle-centered living
The Peace of Results
As we integrate fourth-generation paradigm and processes in our lives, we find a different kind of peace:
· Peace in our ability to live, love, learn, and leave a legacy with balance and joy
· Peace in the development of our human endowments that empower us with character and competence in the moment of choice
· Peace as our roles cooperate rather than compete, as they become parts of a synergistic, living whole
· The transcendent peace of learning to listen to and live by conscience
Two stumbling blocks: Discouragement and Pride. To fight discouragement we need courage to face our lives. Think “Mind over mattress”, and make small promises to yourself and keep them. Gradually you will be able to make and keep bigger promises and have a full personal integrity account. Pride is a stumbling block because it makes us compare ourselves to others. The antidote for pride is humility.
Characteristics of principle-centered people:
· They’re more flexible and spontaneous. They aren’t chained to schedules and appointments. They see life as an adventure.
· They have richer, more rewarding relationships with other people.
· They’re more synergistic. They work with others to achieve a shared vision.
· They’re continually learning.
· They become contribution-focused
· They produce extraordinary results
· They develop a healthy psychological immune system. They can handle problems
· They create their own limits. They don’t work until they drop. They don’t spend until there’s no credit left.
· They lead more balanced lives.
· They become more confident and secure.
· They’re better able to walk their talk.
· They focus on their circle of influence, things they can do something about.
· They cultivate a rich inner life
· They radiate positive energy
· They enjoy life more.
Letting go
· Let go of paradigms that are popular and pleasing but based on illusion.
· Let go of things that aren’t First Things
· Let go of rational-lies-ing
· Let go of unnecessary guilt
· Let go of extrinsic sources of security