Hi All,
You are going to love Indian men for thinking this way!!! Really worth
the read…one of the BEST e-mails I’ve received in a long time!!
It seems that an article was written to a well-founded magazine, by an
English woman who requested a response from Indian men. I’m so glad she got
what she asked for (and more)!!!
This letter was written in response to the following article:
Dear Editor:
I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Indian male readers. I
am a White female who is engaged to an Indian male, good-looking, educated
and loving. I just don’t understand a lot of Indian female’s attitudes
about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
amongst Indian women were slim to none. As he said they were either
too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too
materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged,
whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Indian men, willing to
wine and dine me and give me the world If Indian women are so up in arms
about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make
some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when
we’re out in public. I would like to hear from some Indian men about why we
white women are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left
his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the
model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones,
Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don
Cornelius,Berry Gordy, BillyBlanks, Larry Fishburne, Jesley Snipes…I
could go on and on.
But,right now, I’m a little angry and that is why I wrote this so
hurriedly. Don’t be mad with us White women because so many of your men
want us.
Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your
men better. If I’m wrong, Indian men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
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The Response:
Dear Editor:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Indian man. I studied from
one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a
Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a
major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider
myself to be among the ranks of successful Non-White men. I will not use my
precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record
straight of why Indian men date white women.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Indian men dated white
women was because they were considered easy. The Indian girls in my
neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict about when
they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our
impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up
easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays,
in my opinion, a lot of Indian males date white women because they are
docile and easy to control. A lot of Indian men, because of insecurities,
fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of
our Indian women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than
us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses.
Because of this fear, many Indian men look for a more docile woman. Someone
we can control. I have talked to numerous Indian men and they continuously
comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women.
I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to
know that not all successful Indian men date white women. Non-Whites like
Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestn! ut,Will
Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth ‘Babyface’ Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and
Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women. And, to flip the script,
there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or
secretly desire Non-White women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert
DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don’t want the ‘Disgusted
White Girl’ to be misinformed.
Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.
Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were
ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook
and season your food. It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to
raise your children. It was Non-White women who were raising
your babies during slavery. It is the Non-White woman that had to endure
watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown
in jail.
Indian women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and
being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the Indian women’s strength, elegance, power, love and
beauty that I could never date anyone except my Indian Queen. It is not
just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the
fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and shades that I love
them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Indian women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability
to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they
believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest
potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in
love with Indian women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy
than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to
tanning salons to darken your skin. If you are so proud to be white, then
why don’t you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to
inject your lips unnatural and dangerous substances
so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is
really a result of you wanting to have what the Non-White woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over
and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for
a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my
children. Someone who can be my best friend and understand my struggles. I
am looking for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit
the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed,
Indian Royalty.
